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Jeffrey Marsh      

Nonbinary, Genderfluid Author of “How To Be You”

Jeffrey Marsh’s TikToks and compassionate short-form videos have over one billion views. Marsh is a bestselling author, viral TikTok and Instagram star, nonbinary activist, and LGBTQ keynote speaker. Marsh was the first nonbinary public figure to appear on national television, being interviewed on Newsmax in 2016, and Marsh was the first celebrity activist to use they/them pronouns. Marsh’s #1 bestseller, "How to Be You," was the first nonbinary memoir. And Marsh is the first nonbinary author to sign a book deal with any 'Big 5' publisher worldwide, for Penguin Random House. "How To Be You" topped Oprah’s Gratitude Meter and was named Excellent Book of the Year by TED-Ed. As chronicled in "How To Be You," Marsh lived as a Zen monk and has studied Zen Buddhism for over 20 years. Marsh’s second book, "Take Your Own Advice," was a #1 Amazon Best Seller, outselling all Self-Esteem books upon it’s release. Apple Books named "Take Your Own Advice" as a 'Best Book of the Month.'

Marsh is currently America’s most in-demand nonbinary public speaker with a mega-viral TED talk. Marsh has spoken at the U.N. and for global brands like Target and BNP. Marsh is the world’s foremost commentator on nonbinary identity and trans activism. Marsh is the only nonbinary activist to be targeted directly on Tucker Carlson’s Fox News program in prime time. Rolling Stone recently detailed the hate Marsh has received from the far right in America and profiled the strength of Marsh’s ability to fight hate with love. Marsh has reported on LGBTQ topics for Good Morning America, the New York Times, Variety, TIME, and the BBC. In addition, Marsh was an LGBTQ consultant for Elizabeth Warren’s presidential campaign, and has consulted for New York University, GLAAD, MTV, Condé Nast’s Them, and Teen Vogue.

Marsh is a highly sought-after Breakthrough and Gender Counseling Coach, helping straight and LGBTQ people attain a lasting sense of peace and self-compassion. Marsh regularly coaches celebrities, CEOs, and politicians, helping clients achieve real results and sustainable change. Marsh is a Precepted Facilitator in the Soto Zen tradition.

Marsh is available in partnership with Collective Speakers.

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LIFE IS MORE THAN HE OR SHE

Beyond the feel-good but sometimes vacuous cry of “be yourself!” the ways we use labels can have unforeseen consequences. Often, Jeffrey’s social followers expect their “right label” to cure them and be a total panacea. It doesn’t work that way. Through research and personal stories, Jeffrey presents the ways labels and categories do more harm than good, and how labels that seem empowering can ultimately divide and conquer us.

GENDERQUEER? DEMISEXUAL? YOU DON’T NEED A LABEL

Beyond the feel-good but sometimes vacuous cry of “be yourself!” the ways we use labels can have unforeseen consequences. Often, Jeffrey’s social followers expect their “right label” to cure them and be a total panacea. It doesn’t work that way. Through research and personal stories, Jeffrey presents the ways labels and categories do more harm than good, and how labels that seem empowering can ultimately divide and conquer us.

WE WERE NEVER TAUGHT TO LOVE

Based on “How To Be You,” Jeffrey tells deeply personal stories of being rejected at home and school. The result? An intense conviction that the only gateway to understand how to love in general is to learn love for yourself. Jeffrey tells dynamic stories of daily messages from people who are suicidal and yet have decided to live because of Jeffrey’s work. This talk pulls apart the intensity of self-hate and gives practical everyday tips for leading a loving life.

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